[CBI] Shabbat and Weekly Announcements - November 3, 2023

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Shabbat Shalom!

Do not reply to this email. If you need to reach the synagogue, please email
<mailto:mainoffice at cbi-nj.org> mainoffice at cbi-nj.org or call 973-379-3811.

 

 



November 3-4, 2023 / 19 Cheshvan 5784

For a full list of our service times and links, scroll to the bottom of this
email. 

 

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Mazel Tov to:

Our Kitah Gimel students, on receiving their first siddurim this Shabbat!

 

Jill and Boaz Kimelmen on the marriage of their son Atid to Adina.

 

The Congregation wishes a speedy recovery to:

Malka Almog

 

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For Israel Updates, Resources, and Gatherings, including a new message from
Israel Affairs, click  <https://cbi-nj.org/israelresources/> HERE.

 

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Friday, November 3 // CBI

Bim Bam Shabbat for Young Families at 5:30 p.m.

Shabbat Dinner at 6:00 p.m. for those who have pre-registered

Kabbalat Shabbat Service at 7:00 p.m.

Featuring November Birthday celebrations and a treat!

 

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Death in Jewish Tradition and Lore with Len Hausman

Monday Mornings starting November 13th // 9:30 am // Zoom

There is no more uncomfortable subject than death, even more so in these
times. Rituals and practices around death are a window into a culture's
beliefs and views not just of death, but also of life. They can be viewed as
psychological defense mechanisms to soften the reality of death and pain of
loss for the bereaved. They function as guides to how a community supports
those in grief. While there is no one way to mourn, they offer a roadmap for
those who have lost a loved one.

 

Exploring what Jewish tradition has to say about death is fascinating. While
our rituals and practices have evolved some over the centuries, their basis
has not. We have centuries-old Halacha - Jewish law - surrounding death, but
there is also a fair dose of folklore and even superstition in the mix. And
surprisingly, a number of our rituals are also seen in the practices of
other cultures.

 

Click here for Zoom
<https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84617495276?pwd=cjdFQ3NGYnNKdDkzVGRmNDJZRTROZz09>


Meeting ID: 846 1749 5276 / Passcode: CBI

 

For more information please contact: Joi Noel , Clergy Administrative
Assistant –  <mailto:jnoel at cbi-nj.org> jnoel at cbi-nj.org, or call the office.

 

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Vintage CBI Photos Wanted!

Sunrise, sunset -
Swiftly fly the years
One season following another
Laden with happiness and tears.

In preparation for CBI’s Centennial Celebration, we want to see CBI and our
congregation throughout the years! Please send your photos digitally to
Amanda at  <mailto:aabbate at cbi-nj.org> aabbate at cbi-nj.org, or bring them
into the office to be scanned and returned. We can’t wait to see what
treasures you find as we share 100 years of CBI moments and memories! If you
have any questions or need guidance, please contact Amanda. 

 

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Talmud Study Returns!

Mondays // 7:30 pm // Zoom

Talmud Study with Rabbi Akiba Lubow continues Monday evenings at 7:30 p.m
(with a break for minyan at 8:00).  In the “first semester," the class will
study a continuation of the “Origins of Jewish Worship.”
To join on Zoom, click
<https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83124028829?pwd=eWhoZy8ycEoveGhhRHpYOVJQR0FjZz09>
HERE

Meeting ID: 831 2402 8829 // Passcode: CBI

For more information, please contact Joi in the Clergy Office.

 

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SAFETY AND SECURITY TRAININGS

Congregants are invited to participate in our upcoming Safety and Security
trainings Space is limited, so please register early!

 

ACTIVE THREAT: Run, Hide, Fight!

Monday, November 6th – 11:30 am

Thursday, November 16th – 7:00 pm

 

STOP THE BLEED

Thursday, November 30th – 7:00 pm

Monday, December 11th – 11:30 am

 

For more information, click HERE
<https://cbi-nj.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/Safety-and-Security-Trainings
-Descriptions-2023.pdf> .

RSVP TO executivedirector at cbi-nj.org <mailto:executivedirector at cbi-nj.org>
or the front office two weeks prior to course date.

 

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CBI Sisterhood Rosh Chodesh Program – A Moment of Gratitude

Thursday, November 16th // 6:30 pm // CBI

This has been a particularly painful time for us as Jews. We must
acknowledge that. But we must also make room for hope and gratitude.

Psalms, prayers, poetry, and classic texts point us toward an attitude of
gratitude. 

Join Rabbi Helaine Ettinger for a Sisterhood Rosh Chodesh program exploring
Jewish texts on gratitude as we draw closer to Thanksgiving.

Dinner will be served @ $15.00 per person.

RSVP or questions:  susanzelman at gmail.com <mailto:susanzelman at gmail.com>  or
516-458-4630

 

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Thursday, November 16 // 4:30 pm // CBI

Grief has its own timetable. There is no point at which we stop grieving,
rather, over time our grief evolves.
At CBI we are offering a safe and supportive space in which to share our
memories, our challenges, and the wisdom of our experience. The group will
be facilitated by clergy and is open to both members and non- members.
Our topic:
Grief and Household Items: their favorite chair, their side of the bed,
their place at the table, books, mementos, and special photographs. There
are many reminders all around us that both comfort and pain us.
Let's talk!
RSVP:  <mailto:jnoel at cbi-nj.org> jnoel at cbi-nj.org 973.379.3811 ext 120




 

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Bookends With Sisterhood Returns!


Thursday, December 21st // 7:00 pm // CBI

We will be discussing Kantika by Elizabeth Graver.


Elizabeth Graver began writing her fifth novel,
<https://www.amazon.com/Kantika-Novel-Elizabeth-Graver/dp/1250869846>
Kantika, in 2014, but the Turkish Sephardic dressmaker at the heart of the
multi-generational, continent-spanning saga has been with her for a
lifetime. That’s because she was inspired by Graver’s maternal grandmother,
Rebecca (née Cohen) Baruch Levy.


The discussion will be moderated by Sara Sherman and Barbara Ismail.


Questions?  Call or text Barbara Ismail at 973 462 5971

 

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CBI Israel Trip August 2024

We are praying that the war will have ended long before our scheduled trip.
By next summer, Israel will need to rebuild its economy.  Tourism plays an
important role in its economy.  There is no better time than now to register
for next summer's trip.  Let's amass an inspiring synagogue delegation and
travel to Israel, to inject much needed funds into the tourism industry, to
show our support to the great citizens of Israel, to volunteer and give of
our time and efforts while we're there.  Don't delay.
<https://www.j2adventures.com/join/congregation-bnai-israel-of-millburn-isra
el-august-2024/> Register today.

 

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This Week’s Message from

The CBI Alliance for Sustainability

"Once you've been in space, you appreciate how small and fragile the Earth
is."  Valentina Tereshkova

Use wool or rubber dryer balls to separate your clothes so warm air gets to
them more readily. Dryer balls may also cut static, reducing the need for
dryer sheets. The base for many dryer sheets is polyester, a fabric derived
from oil,  which is then coated with softening compounds. While this might
make fabric feel softer, these compounds can build up on the surface of the
fabric making it less breathable, less water absorbent. In addition there is
concern that these compounds reduce the fire retardant properties of items
such as children's pajamas. Use wool dryer balls instead. They soften
clothing, reduce friction, and may reduce drying time by absorbing some of
the moisture. Because they last for many months, they reduce your waste.

For more information, click
<https://www.energy.gov/energysaver/articles/16-ways-save-money-laundry-room
> HERE  and HERE <https://www.thespruce.com/are-dryer-sheets-safe-5119443> 

 

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This week, 19 Cheshvan through 26 Cheshvan, we remember the following
Yahrzeits:

Arlette Baer

Bruce Garber

Roy Gold

Bernard N Hochberg

Frances Issac

Dr. Ellen Lasser LeVee

Ruth Merdinger

Michael Rappaport

Henoch T. Rod

Ira Samuels

Joseph Smith

Judith Solomon

Klara Berger

Rose Margulies

Samuel Block

Mortimer Gershman

Anna Katz

Ruth Merdinger

Sally Pearl

Dyna Rosenblum

Heinrich Winnik

Harry Aronchick

Elias Cohen

William Cohen

David Dorflaufer

Joseph H. Fink

Samuel Freedman

Dr. Abraham Jacobs

Alexander Kalmanson

Maurice Margolis

Max Rosenfeld

Philip Rosenstein

Samuel George Rothstein

Benjamin Schreck

Felicia H. Weiss

Henry Zimmerman

Minnie Zipkin

William Zipper

Dr. Abraham Jacobs

Frances Isaac

Albert Brown

Morris Fern

Helene Garbow

Rebecca Tanenhaus

Bella Youngelson

            Memorial Plaques have been placed in the Sanctuary for the
coming week.

If you would like a photo of the plaques, contact the front office.

 

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Shabbat and Weekday Services at CBI

We light Shabbat candles on Friday by 5:33 p.m., and Shabbat ends at or
after 6:32 p.m. on Saturday.

Shabbat Services:

Erev Shabbat – Friday Evening 7:00 pm:

Join us in person, on Livestream, or Zoom for our service, filled with
prayer and song.

To join us via Youtube Livestream, click
<https://youtube.com/live/1MF25_LCaOM?feature=share>  HERE.

Click  <https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83783805144> HERE to join service on Zoom.

To call in by phone – 929-436-2866

Meeting ID: 837-8380-5144 Password: CBI

*For a PDF version of our new Siddur Lev Shalem Friday Evening Service,
click
<https://cbi-nj.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Shabbat-and-Festival-morning-
SIDDUR-LEV-SHALEM.pdf> HERE.

 

Saturday 9:30 am

Celebrate with us as Kitah Gimel students receive their siddurim!

To join us via Youtube Livestream, click
<https://youtube.com/live/1MF25_LCaOM?feature=share> HERE.

To join us via Zoom, click
<https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86110421793?pwd=bElPbUdpYUZieHpOK1Frc3lnTDNVZz09#
success> HERE.

To call in by phone – 1-929-436-2866

Meeting ID: 861-1042-1793 Password: CBI

*For a PDF version of our new Siddur Lev Shalem Shabbat Morning Service,
<https://cbi-nj.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Shabbat-and-Festival-morning-
SIDDUR-LEV-SHALEM.pdf> HERE.

 

Weekday Minyan Services at CBI

Please join us for our online morning and evening Minyan gatherings on Zoom.

Your support and participation are appreciated. Services last approximately
one 30 minutes and enable mourners to recite kaddish for a loved one with a
minyan.

Morning Minyan

Sunday at 8:00 am and Monday through Friday at 7:30 am

To join Morning Minyan, click  <https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86110421793> HERE.

To call in by phone – 929-436-2866

Meeting ID:  861-1042-1793   Password: CBI

Please join us for Friday morning minyan in person at 7:30 a.m. -- followed
by breakfast! Friday morning minyan is also available on Zoom.

Evening Minyan

Sunday through Thursday at 8:00 pm

To join Evening Minyan, click  <https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83783805144> HERE.

To call in by phone – 929-436-2866

Meeting ID:  837-8380-5144   Password: CBI

 

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