[meteorite-list] Dealers and their duty

[stan .]

I fear you have missed my point. just because your emails were friendly 
doesnt mean that the dealer in question doesnt think of your 'numerous 
emails' about feedback - even through friendly - arent an annoyance.

He may have time to list other ebay auctions but that doesnt mean he gives 
the same priority to leaving feedback as you do. Maybe he is purposfully 
dragging feet because of your insistance he leave feedback, or maybe he is 
holding off untill the timeframe for paypal complains expires for fear that 
your dog might eat the specimin and you will demand your money back. or 
maybe one of a bunch of other possibilites.

In short people all have their own unique priorities in life. Please keep in 
mind that I'm not trying to say your viewpoint is wrong, but rather that you 
should consider what your seller may think about the situation too. If you 
dont want to to business with someone who doesnt leave feedback, thats your 
perogative and a good way to express your displeasure. Personally for me I 
care much more about the quality of the specimin than anything else.




>Maybe you hadn't read my second post, but this dealer in question has had a
>lot of time in the last three weeks to list item after item, but not 10
>seconds to leave feedback?
>
>And you have no idea if what the content of my "numerous" email were like. 
>I
>am extremely polite and friendly. If polite and friendly bothers a dealer,
>then maybe he should take up another profession like... oh... maybe a
>hermit.
>
>And managing feedback is really simple if you use "My Ebay." You don't have
>to make any lists or remember who you left feedback for. Just go to My 
>Ebay,
>click on feedback and you will be presented with a list of all buyers that
>you need to leave feedback for.